My Story
About
I'm a (cultural) Mormon, Mom of four neurospicy kids 2-12, wife and up until this school year, I homeschooled them. My husband/partner and I have been together for 16+ years.
I was late diagnosed ADHD and self-diagnosed Autism.
For my 38th birthday in late 2025, I gave myself the gift of authenticity and shared my deepest, most raw, authentic truth out loud:
I am queer.
I'm intersex.
I'm non-binary.
I'm a woman.
I didn't come to that conclusion lightly. If your curiosity is piqued, head on over to my substack for the long version.
The shortened version, is that when someone calls me 'woke,' I absolutely agree.
I feel like I've been waking up to my truest self, my life's purpose and my passions for the last couple decades and whether it's clarity, a mid-life crisis or perimenopause, I've had enough of making myself a small, quiet, obedient, sweet people-pleaser.
The silence was killing me, quite literally. Chronic illnesses, pain, stigmas, stereotypes, fears and expectations were rampant in my brain.
I have been suicidal on several occasions in my life, and my mental health in so many areas has drastically improved with proper medication, therapy and my amazing support system.
2025 was a roller-coaster of epiphanies that led to setting boundaries and starting to say things out loud that I'd kept safely locked inside my brain over the years. I'm sure some of them have and will be very hard to hear for those that have really only known the ultra-orthodox 'Molly Mormon' version of me, and I don't blame them.
I know I'm a very privileged, white, heterosexual-passing, female-passing person and as such, I have a responsibility to use my voice and platforms to amplify those that aren't.
I'm totally open to feedback and suggestions as long as they are given respectfully.
In the meantime, I'd like to invite you to click around to better get to know the authentic, raw, quirky, optimistic me. I have big plans, ideas, projects and dreams and I can't wait to see how much I can materialize on my relatively short stint here on planet earth.
Want to help me?
Mission
To embody and spread radical empathy, playful creativity, informed consent and courageous authenticity through my own experiences and acquired knowledge, so that together we grow a more compassionate, connected and liberated world.
I intend to do this through my non-profit project:
Schrodinger's Closet; an inclusive creative club geared towards teens to provide a safe third space that facilitates screen-free irl connection, support and creation.
It is still in the planning phase and though donations aren't tax deductible until a board and articles of incorporation are formalized and registered, any help is deeply appreciated:
Venmo: @SchrodingersCloset
Further questions: info@schrodingerscloset.org
Vision
I envision a world where empathy, creativity, and authenticity help lay the foundation of community. A world where neurodivergent, disabled, oppressed and marginalized voices are celebrated, families thrive through healthy consent and communication, and play is embraced as a powerful tool for healing and growth.
Through a hobby library, sliding-scale pricing, creative storytelling, and inclusive spaces, I am working to create a culture where every person feels safe enough to play and brave enough to become their truest selves.
Pathway
I intend to do this through my non-profit project:
Schrodinger's Closet; an inclusive creative club geared towards teens to provide a safe third space that facilitates screen-free irl connection, support and creation.
It is still in the planning phase and though donations aren't tax deductible until a board and articles of incorporation are formalized and registered, any help is deeply appreciated:
Venmo: @SchrodingersCloset
Further questions: info@schrodingerscloset.org
And because I live in a capitalistic, consumer-based society, I am choosing self-employment to be able to make my dreams and goals a reality.
My for-profit business is Faceted Earth and a conglomeration of digital products, art licensing, event planning, performance art, live entertainment, creative marketing consulting, adult education, fashion design, peer mentoring and more. I hope it will turn into a co-op production company/talent agency of sorts.
Want to collaborate?
hello@facetedearth.org